and has a pacemaker-defib combo (St. Josephs). He has diabetes, a kidney stint, 6 heart stints and now has urinary incontinence, he vomits often, has lost nearly 30 lbs in 4-5 months without dieting. His appetite is low and he fills up quickly, he has refluxe. We read that some of his medications when mixed with others he is on can cause some of these effects. His primary care doctor lets my concerns fall on deaf ears. If my dad says he can't sleep, he gives him pills, if dad says his nerves are bad, he gives him pills. What can we do to make our concerns heard without insulting the Doc. My dad is now having weak muscles, and chronic constipation. He seems dull and empty, void of happiness. Help us please.