... only had 2 sexual incounters in our relationship, I always felt that he was exhausted (he work 80+ hours a week) or this was somehow my fault. Now since this has come to light he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he can not fulfill my needs and desires. Says that I derserve more and he doesn't want to hold me. I don't want to lose him and want to help him though this but he is rejecting me. I don't know what I can do without pushing him further away. He has told me a lot about types of treatment he has tried, I know this is a difficult subject for him to discuss but I am willing to try anything.
Does he have any illnesses? How old is he? There is another factor here. You know his secret. They just can't seem to grasp that there are so many other forms of intimacy. Dang well from birth control to sex counselor here I go lol. See if you can get him to come to dinner. Show him love and caring but make no sexual advances. When my bf had Prostate surgery he was convinced I'd leave him. Heck he was the best man I ever had I wasnot going anywhere just because of a physical problem, it didn't mean we loved each other less. I showed him that.
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