... only had 2 sexual incounters in our relationship, I always felt that he was exhausted (he work 80+ hours a week) or this was somehow my fault. Now since this has come to light he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he can not fulfill my needs and desires. Says that I derserve more and he doesn't want to hold me. I don't want to lose him and want to help him though this but he is rejecting me. I don't know what I can do without pushing him further away. He has told me a lot about types of treatment he has tried, I know this is a difficult subject for him to discuss but I am willing to try anything.
Erectile Dysfunction - My boyfriend of 4 years and I just broke up due to his impotence. We have?
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- 11 Mar 2015 by Amers0312
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- 12 Mar 2015
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Does he have any illnesses? How old is he? There is another factor here. You know his secret. They just can't seem to grasp that there are so many other forms of intimacy. Dang well from birth control to sex counselor here I go lol. See if you can get him to come to dinner. Show him love and caring but make no sexual advances. When my bf had Prostate surgery he was convinced I'd leave him. Heck he was the best man I ever had I wasnot going anywhere just because of a physical problem, it didn't mean we loved each other less. I showed him that.

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Thank you for your response. I just found this out, never knew there was an issue. He is 40 and says that he has exhausted all options. I told him I have no intention of going anywhere, he said that it is not my decision and he has to do this alone because the added stress of having to constantly think about me and the inability to fulfill me is not helping his condition. I don't want to move on however I don't want to ignore his request. I can't imainge what he is going though and don't know how to help him. And, not to be selfish but I don't know how to process this myself. He hasn't talked to his family. Medical professionals and I are the only ones that know about his condition.