... only had 2 sexual incounters in our relationship, I always felt that he was exhausted (he work 80+ hours a week) or this was somehow my fault. Now since this has come to light he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he can not fulfill my needs and desires. Says that I derserve more and he doesn't want to hold me. I don't want to lose him and want to help him though this but he is rejecting me. I don't know what I can do without pushing him further away. He has told me a lot about types of treatment he has tried, I know this is a difficult subject for him to discuss but I am willing to try anything.