... started the suboxone program and took roxis 3 days later we arranged rehab today and he refused he took my car money and left he has put us thru Hell always taking,money destroying our home and I have had it and we have kids that want him gone they are scared so am I he's not rational a.d,he's mean,now we love him.but I can't watch him die
You are the only sane one and you have to save your kids or they will be terrified to be with you because you won't keep them safe. Please find somewhere to go. He is just going to use you and keep using drugs because he can and he just takes from you. Take a bus or cab and get the heck out of there. This is not love and when he wants to stop he will do it and it won't be because of you and the kids.
Dear Cheled, your letter broke my heart, I am sure you are terrified. I am praying for you as I type. Is there any type of women's shelter where you live, you mentioned he took your car money, so I know you may not have resources, battered women's shelters or a church may be able to keep you and the kids together and give you a roof over your heads, food and guidance to help you get back on your feet. They will offer counseling for you and the kids,and you will need that. It is going to anger him in his sick state that you left, but you are leading those kids out of a danger zone, so be strong. Get some supplies together, clothes, and meds you may need, any legal documents like birth certificates and social security cards and get out of there, for your sake and the kids. Do it as secretly as possible, a battered woman's shelter may offer all you need, advice on how to leave, a ride, food, shelter and counseling.
Even if he isn't hitting you, he is abusive to you and the kids and he is betting you won't leave. Get out of the war zone, and you will be better off and it will be easier for you to function with support and guidance. I am saying some prayers, please update us. We care around here.pattishan
Sorry to hear your husband is putting you through such hell,i can imagine what it is doing to you and your family.. I will be straight with you and i dont mean to sound cruel,but either you get him to leave or you take your kids and leave,by right you should'nt have to leave your own home when he is the one
causing problems,so i would stand my ground and tell him its either you and your kids or the drugs,you need to be strong and stand up to him,tell him to clean up his act and then maybe you can build up trust to have a relationship with him,if he chooses the drugs,at least you know where you stand.You should NOT have to put up with him taking your money,or making your kids scared...
Put your children first and get this man out of your lives.If he's willing to get clean,then you can help him get help,but if he's not willing then you are in a no win situation coz the drugs will always come first,he will feed his habit before feeding you and your kids and no woman man or child should have to put up with been treated that way..
In the end its up to you what you do or how you deal with this situation,for what its worth-please take my advice. Whatever the case,i wish you and your kids all the best and i hope you can be strong..
Perhaps a call to the police is in order? I know how harsh that sounds, but as my friend puckiemull said, you SHOULD NOT have to leave your own home, your children need their home and so do you! He should be the one to leave, not you and your children.
Also, you may want to consider calling an attorney that offers free advice, you may need that help in the future too.
Best wishes and please let us know how you and your children are doing, we can try to give you support!!
You need to get an order of protection against this man, & do not let him near you or your children. This might be what it takes for him to hit rock bottom. As long as you continue to let him use , & abuse you, you are also enabling him. Let him know by doing this the proper way that this can no longer be. If he straightens up, great. If not, then it sounds like you & your children would be much better off without him in your lives. Just my thoughts...
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