I found pills in my husbands bag and found text messages where he is texting people for them, I confronted him about them and he says he has a tooth ache, but he's never mentioned anything to me about a tooth ache, don't know if I should believe him or not, I'm still suspicious. How do I know for sure what the real truth is. It's tearing me apart the way things are between us, I have already told his parents and he said if I ever tell my mom anything like that again that he would leave me, but I was worried, cause he wouldn't tell me what they were for. I am not doing good, I've lost weight, I can't even eat, cause I am constantly thinking about everything going on. We have 3 kids together and I don't want them to see me like this all the time. I just want to be happy again. Please help me, any advice would be so great.