where you lash out at people for no good reason, only to get things off your mind? Your physical and emotional pain, worries about your health, become so overwhelming that you say things you don't mean? It's like a snowball rolling down a hill... it starts out as something small (broken back) and each day something adds to the pressures and concerns about your health. You find out you need more surgery, you re-injure a part of your back unrelated to the break, but a problem that brought you to the surgeon is the first place. insurance premiums jacked up to $1,100 per month, and you just can't seem to find that release valve on the pressure cooker. Many of you have bigger fish to fry, how do you deal with it?