I used to do drugs a couple of years ago(Marijuana) and I used to date a girl and she really hurt me bad.Now.I am always wanting to have a girlfriend or be in a relationship and I am just wandering.I have all these weird thoughts all the time now.I have been on multiple-Anti-Depressant's and nothing seems to be working for me.Can someone diagnose me the best they can??? Even If you are not a doctor.Could you please give it your best shot or advice at least.I just want to be happy.I got away from the croud that used to do the drugs but alot of my family still does them.I don't even have 1 friend now.It's very sad. I now but that's what happens when all of your friends were drug users.
You got your heart broken. And I know how it feels, you are still very affected by this girl, but you have to get over her and move on.
I am 41 bipolar (ocd,anxiety, insomnia, paranoia... etc) among other conditions, I also did drugs.
I have been married twice 2 children, two of my expereinces.
But this is about you.
I met a wonferful, intelligent, beautiful human being, she was and still is gorgeous.
We went out for 5 months, and then moved in together, she was also BP.
We thought that the love we had for each other would somehow overcome our "conditions" .
We went to Brazil as a pre honeymoon, got back and got engagged... we where going to get married and try to have a family, but the bipolar disorder got in the way ( I do not want to use fowl language).
We decided to end the relationship, and let me tell one thing my friend..she was, still is and always will be the love of my life and I am hers, we spoke a couple of days ago, and we talked about this and we can not be one and we have accepted it..and it hurts me and her beyond you can ever imagine.
We gave it our very best shot... everything we had..we fought hard to maintain our sanity and relationship... but it was not enough.
When the relationship was over, two weeks later a manic episode hit me so f... hard, it lasted two years, two years of my life just gone, just like that. And when I was in this manic phase no medication did anything for me..I went completely crazy. Thank the Lord my folks took care of me along with doctors.
I think you are depressed because I believe you still love this girl, and the meds will not help until you get over her, they may "calm" you down.
See my friend, when you say you are looking for a girl it is for many reasons besides the obvious, you are looking to forget this other girl that broke your heart, you are looking for companionship, for love, for affection, and for not to be lonely and feel that someone truly cares about you... you need to receive and also give what you feel inside.
This is one thing.
Regarding you staying away from drug users it is very wise on your behalf, the problem now is your family.
How can you become independent? Because you do not mention how old you are.
With regards to advicing on which medications you can take, I at this time will not suggest any, and I will leave that up to the rest of our online family.
YOU MUST SEE A PSYACHIATRIST FOR THE MEDS AND A PSYCHOLOGIST FOR THERAPY.
I wish you the best of the best..be strong never give in no matter what everyone is lonely sometimes in their lives ..you are not the only one..OK
Hi sweet arcanoidcyst16 poor baby im sorry you've had your heart broken she obviously didnt see she had a good thing when she met you. It apparently just wasnt meant to be one day your real true love will set you free from your broken heart. In the mean time focus on yourself this should be the time to turn your life around and start anew. If you can find a job you enjoy not to mention it will get your mind off of your broken heart. Even if your not a clubber go clubbin meet some people dont worry about the whole girlfriend thing right now you will have someone soon that will want to do plenty of snuggling with you. Im usually the heartbreaker but as i grew up i soon learned that its not nice to play with someones emotions. Everyone wants to be loved maybe you just want a little more love then most and that is not a crime im sure you are sweetheart and someone will see those good qualitys in you.
There is nothing more that a girl wants in her life than to be loved and told sweet things too and held. So you see your not the only person that wants those things and when you find the gal that has the same interests you will be a perfect match. Till then live your life and enjoy, life is too short to be short lived by a broken heart. If you need someone to talk to a friend there is always someone here to talk to and we are all friends here so i hope to hear from you soon with better news keep your chin up okay. You are on my friends list so dont be a stranger write me whenever you need a shoulder to cry on!
I'm 53 years old female and have been down the same path as you many times before getting mental health support. It is important to get professional help now and not waste so many years just "wondering" in need. I was just a round 35 years old when I finally got professional help, It is like night and day how I feel these days. It took this long before the meds I was on for help started to have "break-through" episodes. I wasted another 6 months of my life before I finally figured out why I was feeling the way I had in years gone by changing to another medication. I am back on the path to a much more relaxed/simple/happy life.
Please know that I had to try a number of different medications till the doctor found one that worked great for me. Also "break-through" can happen at any time so be aware of how you are feeling by keeping a journal of how you feel each day/week. This will help you better understand your mental health better.
Sounds to me like you had your heart broken and along with a broken heart comes anxiety, depression, trust issues and so on. Because of the situation I personally don't think there is a real diagnosis other than a broken heart. Ive been there, and also with the drug use and loss of friends. And one day i just decided I don't belong in a certin catagory of friends, im a loner and you might be too. My best advice is to get involved with things you really enjoy, mine is hiking and climbing. A broken heart and sadness is a part of life and there is no cure. Another thing is God. Building a relationship with him can bring you all the happiness in the world :)
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