Hello,i am 31 years old. i had a baby 8 years ago and i had real bad depression and have been on meds ever since. i left my kids dad about 4 years ago due to another women at my house anyways he has made my life a living hell. i am on wellbutrin 300mg and my dr. might put me on cymbalta with it. i would like to have another baby someday and i don't feel like that will ever happen because of being on meds because of my ex. i have depression and anxiety because i am scared of him
If that was why you were depressed, the pills wouldn't help you. You definately have to deal with him finally, and end it. Get a restraining order, bring charges, whatever you have to do to deal with him. But your depression has to have some internal cause. When you want to get pregnant, see your gyne for advice.
Stop blaming your ex, your life is yours and you can go forward, it not easy, but as long as we blame someone else for our state of mind we remain in a hellish trap of self-focus. I've been there so I only speak from compassion.
Free yourself from this though-life and you will be amazed at the freedom. If the fear is real get a restraining order, if it's not then it's up to you (us) to think about what we're thinking about. Hang in there, you have friends here and should make every effort to surround yourself with support locally.
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