I'm 43 female mom of 3 and this is my 3rd anti depressant. As with the others, the side affects seems to hit me immediately. With this one, i woke up feeling drunk - I don't drink. The side affects I have are under the "rare" column. I don't want to keep trying other drugs but I need SOMETHING, so I'm wondering if anyone else had issues when first taking it and do they go away or get worse. Thanks