Cancer - Hi everyone, Normally my wonderful bride would be blogging right now. But sadly, today?
- 6 May 2012 by Anonymous
- 18 Jun 2012
- vomiting, pain, cancer
... she is unable to do so. I promised her that if she took a turn for the worst that I would update you. So here it is.. Melissa started having a lot of pain Today. She was vomiting and trembling with so much pain. This started about 12 in the afternoon. The doctors were unable to give her any more pain meds. At around 2 p.m. she went into a full blown seizure. It is now 11 p.m. and she still has not woke up. The doctors tell me she is in a coma. She may wake up, she may not. At this point it is too early to tell if she has any major damage to her brain.
I can't believe this. My heart is so heavy right now. She is the best person I have ever known in my whole life. The love in her heart shines! Everyone around her can see it! I have literally seen her donate every peice of clothing in her closet to a woman and her family who were in need. I can't imagine living without her. She was so upset when she found out that children may not be possible. I want children. But I need her! If children of our own is not possible then in all fore adopting a child in need. But I can't live without her. I just keep sitting here with her, holding her hand and talking to her. God PLEASE let her wake up! I would give anything to take this illness on myself so she doesn't have to suffer. She has been through so much in her life, I hate that she is having to deal with this too. So please! I know she has prayer warriors on here. Please pray for my wife! She has touched so many lives, she deserves her miracle. Thank you so much for being here for her. Posting and talking to all of you on here has really helped her cope with some of this.
Oh Adam, I am so sorry to hear this. I will keep hold a vision of hope for both of you and visualize her waking up soon. Hang in there and keep us posted!
God hears your crys and I pray that His will be done. We are here to support you and your wife. Sometimes things happen that we don't understand, but believe that it is God's way of pulling us closer to him. Adam I will be praying for you and your wife. If there is anything else we can do, just ask.
Hello Adam. Thank you for being there for her. You are both wonderfull people. My thoughts are for you both. Sincerest of wishes that all turns out well, pledge
Dear Adam, my heart goes out to both of you. Keep strong in your faith, & I know whatever way this goes is the right way. I have had the prilveledge of getting to know Melissa, & I know she is fighting whether in a coma or not. She loves you very deeply & if there is any way she can, she will awaken to be with you again. Keep talking to her, & giving her the love she so deserves. Tell her that we are all pulling for her, and to never give up the fight. You both have my good thoughts for a long and wonderful life together. This was her dream to be married to you, and that part has already come true. Don't give up hope, as miracles do happen. Give her our love, & may you both be blest... Mary
Thank you all so much! She is still unresponsive. Her heart rate is 45 bpm. That's pretty low and is concerning me. She can wake up right? I mean people wake up from being in a coma all the time right? She has to wake up. Sitting here looking at her. She is hooked up to machines. Breaks my heart.
Adam, my prayers are with you both. I really understand what you are going through, I was in your position a few yrs ago. All you can do is keep praying and telling her you love her, and talking to her.
In our darkest of hours God is there and maybe she is just taking a moment to speak with him. I've had patients to wake in way worse condition. They need to hear you tell them to be strong and stay as long as they can. They can hear you. I am praying that God hears your calling and gives her more time. Life is difficult, sickness ails those that are gold of heart. I've seen the most generous and loving just suffer tremendously because they bear so much.. they wouldn't trade it or change it. I'm young but my struggles are mounded because I think God strengthens those who sacrifice themselves for others. They say not to just ask God but command his healing onto your wife. Command that he unburden her of pain and sickness and pray for your heart to mend. I truly hope things get better for her, to wake and be pain free and smile with you with love shining. Very best of wishes and wellness for your family.
Her heart rate is now at 43. Its dropped 3 digits. What if she is still in pain. She was crying and throwing up yesterday because she was in so much pain. But they couldn't give her any more or stronger pain meds. Is it possible that she is still in that much pain, but she just can't tell us right now. I hope and pray she is pain free right now. I am still talking to her. Have been reading all of your posts to her.
Hi Adam, am just checking in with you. It's been several hours since you last posted. How is Melissa doing? Please let us know. Am very concerned for her, & you too. Please let us know when you can. We are here for you too, anytime you need us. Love, Mary
Praying for you both Adam. Billy
Hi my wonderful little prayer warriors. This is Melissa speaking. I'm awake. Adam is not here right now. My doctor says I have been in a coma for about 2 days. Adam doesn't know I'm awake yet. Thank you all for being so loving and helping him. All my love.
You and Melissa are in my prayers.
Here are a few scriptures for you.
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
The Lord is close to all who call on him.
Welcome back girl! You have a lot of people praying for you here. As you can see Adam has kept in contact with us about you. You have a very special man there. You both make a nice match.
How are you feeling? Try to get yourself some rest. I'm sure Adam is not far. He was at your bedside the whole time by the sounds of it.
Take care of yourself!
Hello Adam and Melissa
I had to write when I read that you are reading our posts out loud to Melissa. She can hear us, she knows we are here, she knows that people from around the world are praying for her.
I'm crying for you Adam. Melissa is a lucky girl to have you, thank you for standing by her when she needs you most.
I've prayed and asked that she be healed. So Mote It Be.
Sending love and hugs
Welcome back Melissa! Quite a journey you are taking. You were mighty busy while I was dealing with a few things in my life too. Not as dramatic, luckily for me. Made of tough stuff aren't you?
Your husband loves you deeply and has been there for you. He speaks kindly and lovingly. You got a good one! Wishing you a good recovery and tons of love. Karen
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