I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs now. He lost his previous job due to coke. I was there to pick up all the pieces, helped him get a new job, and offered him to live with me. Now, I find out that he is still using, and tries to hide it from me. I don't want to live like this anymore. It's really bad when he "Comes down" from coke. Sometimes he can be violent or just plain buligerent. We've had MANY arguements due to his addiction. His family lives 3 states away, and he has absolutely no where to live. I want him to either quit or move out, but when I tell him this he gets violent and breaks my things. I cry and think I can't live w/o him. He says he's going to get help, but I don't see that happening. I've tried to give him pamplets about it, but he just reads them and laughs. Please give me some advice to how to help him, or please help me figure out what I can do. I feel like I can't live my own life b/c I constantly worry that he's going to be buying coke.