..i had back surgery 7 years ago that failed and im now inoperable.Fentanyl Pain Patch that my fam dr is considering since I'm getting immune to the oxy? I thought she may just up the mg but she thinks the patch would be best. I'm inoperable due to having MRSA and I've had one back surgery that made my pain WORSE! Need advice,I'm 39 with 3 children and a wonderful supportive husband and I don't like being bedridden. I enjoy working outdoors and home decor but in the last 3 years I have really noticed a decline in the ability to do those things. I spend 89% time in my bed watching tv and my family spends time with me in our bedroom to spend time with me. Thanks and would appreciate all opinions :)