My mom is in a nursing home. She is 90 and weighs 90. In the last year she has lost 12 pounds. Issues with feeding and meal prep play into this scene as well. She is anxious about eating and loss of weight. I want to do right thing without drugging her up. Her health is frail, attitude good. I see remeron is used mostly for depresssion. I just want to make cetain they are not 'doping' her up so she loses all personality and link to reality. Her mind is "with it". She has been on megace for about 2 months. Not looking for a prescription, but any experiences anyone has with short or long term use of this drug on elderly parents. Fair enough? Thank you.