My daughter was diagnosed when she was 16 (now 27) with BPD and also Bipolar Disorder. It explains a lot about our relationship being on again off again at a whim. She gave birth in December to a beautiful little girl that I have been trying to get custody of (she is in foster care) but the courts have been paying so much attention to my daughter's lies and it is killing me. I started reading a workbook titled "Stop Walking on Eggshells" which has a text also, and it is so accurate about her that I cannot imagine how much pain she must be in if she even knows reality. I am so confused about all this and would like any help I can get about clarification from experience. Thanks so much.