... want to start dating i'm very afraid to start over. I have to tell them i have this virus and risk them telling people. Not to mention the look that people give just to find out. Where do I start? The boyfriend i had that gave it to me, had to know he had it. Looking at all the signs and signals he had it and did tell me a thing. I don't want that to happen to anyone involved with me. Help please I want to love again!