He said he fells like an empty shell and can't find enjoyment in anything. I don't know if he realizes these things have a lot to do with him using. He has had a problem with perks for about 2 years now and recently started experimenting with heroin. I found this out along with the fact that he had cheated on me with at least two different women in the past. When I finally got to sit down to talk to him about him using and the cheating he ended it with me. Said he just didn't feel the same anymore and that I deserved more than he had to give right now. He said he loves me and can not fathom why he can't stick with putting the effort i deserve into the relationship. I really honestly believe all of this if the drug use talking, but I am afraid he doesn't see that. I love him very much and when he is sober we are very happy together. I know I need to give him space, I understand that. I also know I can not help him get clean, he must do it for himself. A lot of my close friends have recently fought with this same addiction, so I kind of already know. I guess I am just looking for some advice. I don't want to give up, but it seems like he already has...