First let me begin by saying I work at an out patient detox center. This is were i met my current boyfriend. We helped him get off of opiates and we stated dating around the time he completed our program. He is an amazing person and we have so much in common. When we were first going out he was in and out of jobs and procrastinating about starting school. Now he has an amazing job with great benifits and he is going to school to be a paramedic/firefighter. He treats me good and I love him but he keeps relaspsing. The first time it happend i was here for him and I helped him thru it and he went back on Suboxone. But even while he was on the Suboxone he would still take opiates. The only way I could tell is because of where I work and I see it everyday. Any time I thought he look high I would ask him to take a drug test. The second time it happend I got angry and told him if it happend again I don't know if I could stay with him. And now here we are again!! I don't know if I should stay with him or leave him. I love who he is when he is not taking drugs but I don't want to be with if he is on them. But I don't know if being here for him is enabling him or helping him. I know that I do not want to marry someone who is addicted opiates what can I do to help prevent him from relapsing. He tells me that he want to get off and stop taking them and then he using any excuess he can just to take them. I feel like everything he says to me is just a lie.