[gustavo]

I think my wife is addicted to Zanax and or cocaine. 2 weeks ago she left our home with my 2 kids in bed while I was at work and she was found several days later in a known drug home. She came back after spending time at her sisters house. I had to call HRS on her because she abandoned the kids. She had to get tested for drugs and in fact came back positive for coke, marijuana, and Zanax. She has been home for about a week. Tonight it seems like she may be at it again though. She left the house at 6:30 for counseling and has not come home yet. It is 11pm and I have not heard from her yet. I guess my question is: should I give up on this and move on? Should I file for a divorce tomorrow? Is she playing games with me? The pain is too much to handle. I don't want to be played like a violin. I think I need to let her go as much as I don't want to because I love her so much. Just looking for some advice.

Gustavo

[JBowski13]

Doesnt seem like she wants to quit soon, and she wont till something scares her, either her kids moving away or coming close to an overdose. Shes in her own world and nothing matters excepting getting that line. Watch your money, it might be gone quick.

[amberolie]

sounds like she is using the crack form of cocaine, just how you say she leaves for days no matter to the kids. its sad she is in her own little world and nothing matters to her but getting high please support her and put her in atleast a 30 day in treatment fac this is a hard drug to overcome

[mpvt]

Cocaine is one of if not the most phsycologically addictive drugs there is,especially if it's smoked from rock.You need to get her to a rehab or detox fast.I've seen so many people lose everything doing this drug.Be swift and hard if you have to,your children are at risk....Dave