SHAME on YOU, Dr. Phil! Hi No More,
I have a hard time listening to Dr. Phil when he is speaking on the topic of addiction or alcoholism, although I think he is quite knowledgeable on many topics. In that show you are speaking of, he told the addict on his stage that he was a "parasite" and a "liar" - that infuriates me. For all Dr. Phil says addiction is a disease, the labels and disdain he shows those who have this disease reveal his ignorance.
Dr. Phil was raised by an actively alcoholic father, and I believe that has scarred him tremendously, as he has spoken of it frequently. That childhood trauma seems to interfere with his true understanding of the complexities of this disease. He can't help but sound condescending when he speaks to the person who is suffering.
This year, he has gotten better about this - in the past, it was far, far worse. I recall him raising his voice to some, shouting, "You know how I know you're lying? Your lips are moving!!!"
As further evidence of his ignorance, he is often appalled to find out that the addict or alcoholic USED that day they were on his show - huh? He knows they can't stop - yet he has to bring it up and condemn them for it, when they are there to ADMIT they do not have control. How ridiculous. If they COULD go without the drug, they wouldn't be there in the first place!!!
If Dr. Phil truly believed it is a disease, as he proclaims it is, why would he insist on SHAMING the addict/alcoholic as he does??? That just turns my stomach. He's an educated professional, and should know better.
Just my humble opinion...
Ruth |