You can try
Hydroxyzine brand names (Vistaril & Atarax).
Hydroxyzine is an antihistamine similar to
Benadryl,
Zyrtec,
Phenergan, etc.
It's unique in a way that it relieves anxiety even moderate panic attacks similar and just as effective as
Valium but with out the euphoria.
25-50mg of Hydroxyzine would equal 5mg of Valium
Buspar is another unique drug prescribed for anxiety although some people say its addictive its not a controlled substance, and you have to wait at least 2-3 weeks for the full effect out of all the drugs and herbs mentioned this is the only one I haven't tried so I don't know if its any good some people say its great while others say it doesn't work.
Kava Kava is just as effective as benzodiazepines at relieving anxiety and stress you can find this herbal supplement at GNC or local herb stores; the same goes for Valerian, skullcap, and hops but they're a little less effective.
Gabapentin (Neurontin) and Pregabalin (Lyrica) are anticonvulsants and analgesics usually given for nerve type pain and off label for insomnia and anxiety.
Tramadol (Ultram) is a unique Synthetic Opioid that acts on opioid receptors in the brain to decrease pain but also acts on Serotonin, Norepinephrine, GABA, adrenaline, and to a lesser extent dopamine. It is prescribed for moderate to severe pain with similar potency to
codeine 50mg of Tramadol equals 60mg-90mg of codeine. Some doctors prescribe Tramadol off label for anxiety, depression, RLS, migraines, & Fibromyalgia.
But honestly try taking small doses of benzodiazepines on an "as needed" basis. Try 0.5mg of
Clonazepam (Klonopin) twice daily for extreme anxiety or 10mg of Valium 2-3 times a day for severe anxiety and insomnia.
Long acting Benzodiazepines are less addictive which are
Diazepam (Valium) and Clonazepam (Klonopin).
I take Clonazepam 1.5mg twice daily and have been taking it on a regular basis for 3 years and can stop and have no withdrawal symtoms and I don't feel high on it, it just relieves my anxiety and so far haven't built that much of a tolerance.
Klonopin or Valium are your best bet for anxiety; just follow the directions on the bottle and you'll never become addicted to them.
If those don't work try
Lorazepam (Ativan) and last resort
Alprazolam (Xanax).