Haha well yes im in Jersey so there is a time differnce...Back to your questions I was on
Wellbutrin XL for approx. 6-8 months and it did NOTHING for me,but at the same time I was using heroin so that screwed with things...I am clean now,and on
prozac,and it works much better for me...Give the Wellbutrin a try it really may help you...Panic attacts could also very well be from coming off of your antidepresants...
Xanax,valium,ativan,klonopin etc...are all benzos just with different strengths,relase times,and amount of durration they work...Honestly if I were you I'd use the
ativan(it sould'nt make you feel numb,and like BLAH) the
valium I'd only use for sleep once in a while and thats it(even at all)...You're body builds a tolerance to valium very quickly and then you just have to keep taking more,and more so IMO a VERY bad benzo for long term use,and also for daytime use...As far as sex drive goes well Hmmm no comment!

Take care and let me know how all of this works out fr you!