Robert, totally agree! I wouldn't wish withdrawal on my worst enemy, and as I said if I had to do it again I would definetly go the sub route, but only for the shortest time (thanks to posts like yours and the other guys who were trying to get off). Support is so critical. I had to go it alone. I guess that's why I cling to this support group so much. My hubbie cared as much as he could, but he works like 14-16 hours 7 days a week. Not around much and when he is he is on the phone for work so... not much time for a whining wife-LOL.
I think anyone who does sub should have the advantage of knowing exactly how to use it to the optimum benefit. |