This is why I hate doctors... in my area, they are jerks and care only about themselves and their career... here it is..
The other night, I couldn't sleep. i knew I had a UTI and felt terrible, but dealt with it because I don't trust doctors. Sometimes I can treat it myself with homeopathic remedies and I'm ok,,, but after another sleepless night, I got up around 2 in the morning and felt so dizzy I passed out cold on my kitchen floor. When I came too, my husband was looking over me scared to death, I don't know what happened, but I felt like my BP was skyhigh, so he got scared and called the Ambulance {mistake #!} they came out, and saw I could walk and was alert, so they asked if I wanted to go to the hospital, and my husband convinced me to go. So, I got in the Ambulance feeling very emabressed, and they treated me very badly and told me that I was keeping them from more important duties, I felt like I could've jumped out and walked home. I felt so bad I even apoligized, because I diddn't know what else to say. and I hadn't slept in 2 days. So, I get to the hospital and was greeted by actually a very nice nurse, who was compationate and actually cared.
So, after and urine sample and a bp check {was 184/104} and a 2 hour wait. The doctor came in calling me by my last name, I knew that wasn't good. He said I would not have died from my HBP today, but I would eventually and that wasn't a reason to be there.and then he asked what the problem was and I told him, when he saw I came in by ambulance, he proceeded to tell me that I was a bad person, that someone could have died because I took an ambulance, and that an ambulance ride costs 600$, and then he told me that people die every day because of someone like me and I was "taxing the system", When he left I cried so hard that when the nurse came in, she couldn't understand what I was saying. When I finally got it out, she was understanding and said what he said was horrible and she wrote down in my chart what he had said to me and gave me a number to call to complain, when I told my husband and when he picked me up what happened, he immediatly called that person to complain, after he told her she said,"oh no, not again". So, I hope he got in trouble. I hope I recieve something in the mail for a law suit against him or something but I don't think I would get that lucky. I already don't trust dr anyway, and this confirmed my feelings. I have many diagnosis and I haven't been to my dr for a while because I dont trust any one I have even had. My Grandfather was the lead medical director and an MD at that hospital for 55 years. If he was still alive that dr would've been fired on the spot... so there it is, sorry so long, sometimes I think about it and cry, where is the compassion? What about the hippocratic oath? Its all lost now adays... something needs to be done.. thanks for reading... PS~when I left my BP was 202/126... I left anyway!
This is why I hate doctors... my horrible story?
- Posted:
- 20 Mar 2010 by chronicpainhurts
- Topics:
- high blood pressure, endometriosis, osteoarthritis, pain, fibromyalgia, muscle pain, sciatica
Responses (37)
20 Mar 2010
I am really sad to hear your story. I hope you are from US. I am from India. Here the situation is different, in the sense, you have to wait in long queue because there is no value for a patient's time.
But I am glad to note that you take homeo medicines also. So why dont you stick to homeo treatment. It can do wonders. Read www.hpathy.com I take homeopathy and Ayurvedic treatment only, because I hate Allopathy more than the drs.
My BP is ususually 180+/110+ They prescribe some medicines for these which have bad reactions and may cause damage to kidneys, liver and other internal organs. It is a ridiculous system.
Dont worry you will get well soon.
20 Mar 2010
Oh my gosh, I'm sitting here so pissed off. You know why this pissess me off more and more. I am RN (not been able to work in 2 years,various reasons). Please don't think I am bragging but I loved taking care of my patients. My motto was before I ever knocked on my patient's door I would ask myself. How would I want my mother, my father, my sister and even myself to be treated if I was laying in that bed. Then what pissed me off was they would give me 6-7 patients (orthopedic floor) most post surgical needing pain medicaion. Because I took care of the needs of my patients I was not there the 12 hours I was scheduled, I was there around 15 hours. I was the only nurse that was left there finishing up paperwork while all the others were gone in 12 hours. I figured it out, they spent no time with their patients and they were the most rude people. It was like they were robots, no smiles no compassion.
20 Mar 2010
This kind of thing is just plain mean and should never have happened. Your writing gives me the impression you are not from the U.S., which doesn't matter at all to me, except that I'm embarrassed for my country if these people (the doctor and paramedic) were Americans. I'm so very sorry you were spoken to and treated with such disrespect by this pathetic doctor. His remark that you weren't going to die today was probably the only kindness or reassurance possible from this person but I'm sure it didn't sound a bit kind. You are certainly not a bad person or taxing the system! Your tax dollars help pay to run this "system." Please try to see that your health is still in danger and you could still have a stroke, or worse. Forgive me if I seem to be making your experience even more awful. Please, may I suggest that you turn your energy to getting your blood pressure down.
20 Mar 2010
Why I hate [most] Doctors; "chronicpainhurts" I hear& feel Your pain and I understand completely. I will tell the long story if anyone wants to hear it, but not into it now,[i'm hurtin']. The short of it is; Aug. 8, 2009, I was in mortal agony [new I was dieing!?} pain coming in waves, B.P. out'a sight, half lucid, half gonzo'. I managed 2 call My doctor, told him, best I could. He gave Me an appt. in 2 weeks. No way! I called a Cab [$60 one way] to Drs. office.only to be met by Fully Armed & Armored National Guard Soldiers and an Ambulance with engine idleing. I was forced at gunpoint into ambulance, strapped down, knocked out with drugs, taken to hospitol, given $2300 worth of Drugs i've never heard of, had My brain fried twice [they screwed up the first one] by an M.R.I. machine, an ended up in a Hospitol bed with 2 N.G. Troopers outside My door. [orders- "nobody in , nobody out"]... My Doctor told N.G.
20 Mar 2010
hi, this is the kinda story i hear all to often. some of these doctors think it is there job to tell the people who are paying there salaries what kind person they think we are on one of our worst days. if we were at our best would we be in a hospital being shuffled around like cattle. i think not. i hope you go to the proper channels so dr nose in the air, gets to hear what kind of compassion he delt you on that visit to there hospital. don't let him get away with that kind of behaviour. if i have to go to the emergency room im on deaths door. you very well could have been. it up to every patient to tell the administration when we are satisfied or when we are not. but if you don't names your shoddy treatment goes unheard.if i go to a door and he trys to treat me like crap, i fire him and call my insurance co and let them know. doctors and pharmacists are at the mercy of our over paid insurance companys.
Thanks zubzero58, and everyone for your comments. I am more scared now of my blood pressure, now that I know how dangerous it was. I will be taking steps to help myself with that. I already have lost 60 lbs, but unfortunatly, gained some of it back, and I think thats what did it. I am doing my best to get that dr fired, but don't know if it will work... we'll see and I'll keep everyone posted. With my fibromyalgia, I am already standing on the edge of a cliff all the time, all I need is a dr to push me over the edge. I will once again find a new dr. There is a doctor about 30 miles away that just treats fibromyalgia, and related conditions, I will give her a call... thanks again, I will not put up with anyone elses crap! :)
I am so sorry to hear about your story. I have now made up a new name for the "Hypocratice Oath" it is now the "Hypocritical Oath". They now pledge to be hypocritical, judgmental, quick diagnosing physicians just to get you out of their office and get someone else in. I have no doubt that there are really good doctors out there, they are just few and far between. If I had a nickel for every time a physician did not listen to my list of symptoms and was quick to chose a misdiagnoses and incorrect treatment plan, I would be very very rich. I pretty much had to do all the research and diagnose myself. I hate it the most when they try to tell me how I feel, what medications work and or don't work when I already know by now what does and does not. They just simply do not want to prescribe what is necessary because of the "risk". That is not caring for the patient that is caring for only themselves hence the "Hypocritical Oath".
18 Apr 2010
Hello chronicpa: You're right, you just told us members , people , readers a real Horror story. Do not apologise for a long story, or a horror story, as you NEED to unload it , and We need to read it.
Maby the people in these groups are starting to get angry and shocked over the inhumane treatment and total lack of knowledge we the people are being forced to accept. Three of us... subzero58... christeneATU... and Sacosam have started talking about a protest group. It's gonna' take a lot more than 3 people... at LEAST 25 people, with 3 alternates ? ? ? but there'sa helluva' lotta' people in these groups ! !
Sacosam
Hey, I would like to join the protest group, please tell me how.
Hi mfpdifibro(?) You are IN Girl... now wasn't that easy ? ? Sacosam
1 May 2010
I'm in Ohio and feel the same way about dr. What both the er squad & dr said was totally inapproriate. Every line I read about your story pissed me off. I've seen & heard about things like this to often. Most dr. do think there GOD. Itabouts a shame that we HAVE to trust them. Just like juries, pharmacies & food suppliers, lawyers & cops, they no we need them & depend on their morals & values of doing the right thing. We literallly put our lives in their hands. Unfortantely, to often they don't.They all got an allegiance to each other. Theres got to be something we can do. Plus if your not among the hi-wealthy people of the world, your really up shit creek without a paddle.
They need to be put in a situation in which someone they care about is treated like they treat people, and no one to advocate for them. I remember that feeling of hoplessness, but GOD ALWAYS sends atleast one person, just like that one nurse that helps you get thru for that moment in time. Who knows, he may hav already got his.
1 May 2010
Your story is horrible! But you really should be taking something for your BP it is way too high. As you don't like doctors I assume you aren't very fond of meds. Check out the omega 3'S and other natural remedies for high bp and I am sure you can find a natural way to control it. Watch your diet salt, caffeine, etc. My mom swears my her natural remedies she will be 78 in August. I would also recommend a bp machine for at home so you can monitor it yourself. Hospitals are getting worse and many people feel as you do.
1 May 2010
I am from Manchester, New Hampshire, and chronicpainhurts is not alone here either. I am new to this program on drugs.com and I have enjoyed being able to share my questions and thoughts and I like to try and help people in anyway I can. I just read your story and oh my God the flashbacks of an emergency room trip I had came back. You are not alone in this battle of doctors and medical personnel. I went to a local hospital for some help, I was in severe pain and I was also suicidal and ready to call it quits and before I did my husband took me to the hospital. I was physically threatened by a LNA and lied to constantly by the doctor and RN who took care of me here is my story hope it is not to long but I want to reassure you that you are not alone in this fight for better health care. I went to the hospital just recently and I told them I needed some help I was thinking of suicide because I couldn't take being in pain and vomiting all the time (still am).
marjorie zych- I was in a bad place mentally a few months ago. Everyone kept telling me to go to the hospital to get some relief from the depression, crying, thoughts of dying etc, even my psychiatrist said to admit myself. But I didn't and now hearing your story, i'm glad I didn't, it's exactly what I fear most, getting beat up by people who are supposed to help, instead they do more damage. Sorry about your experiences...
Thaks cathleen I took care of that situation with the administrator of the hospital. I am not going to take it anymore and now I have a good doctor and she don't put up with her patients being messed with either so it just goes to show there are good ones out there but they are very hard to find that is for sure I know I have been to enough of them in all areas of practice, marjorie zych
4 May 2010
I hope I don't live in your area-our only ER is bad enough after being taken over by a large private medical 'conglomerate'. Their ER chief was shipped off to my pain clinic; Was actually told by him/ex ER doc that I called their office too often, and 'how are they supposed to run a business like that?'! (I had to call repeatedly to get copies of my records.) Never mind patient care. My records have gotten totally mixed up... and beyond. About you: Question: are you overweight? HBP patients are often 'dismissed' for this alone. Also knowing 'too much' about symptoms & meds can make ER Docs less appreciative of your condition. If you have a primary care doc. get a health panel, your BP is way too high. Agree with the omega threes, take them if you can, also biotin 500-1000 mcg/day help with triglycerides/artery function. Stay away from the caffeine, and check any meds you are taking with the drug interaction page on this website, some can cause high BP. Good luck, and I hope you have access to another ER.
14 May 2010
Have you contacted your state's Ombudsman? I don't know if your state has one but call your local Department of Human Services (DHS) and ask them to help you by giving you the Ombudsman's phone number. Tell this person exactly what happened to you with that awful Dr. An Ombudsman is supposed to represent you and help you resolve what happened to you.
Hope this helps.
WOW, I never thought of that myself, see folks I don't know everything. I forgot about them guys. Thanks for the reminder, marjorie zych
16 May 2010
wow hun all i can say is wow what a jerk i have only been treated like shit one time and at that time i was a few weeks preg with my 6 year old and the nurse mid wife that i seen at first was treating my like shit she wanted to do a abortion on me i was like omg no no no and then i got another doctor after i told them i did not want that woman near me ever again and i told them what she had done and she got fired haha showed her but hun unfortonally there are still SOME nice doctors and nurses out there but there again you do have the doctors that are there to get paid and walk away and not even care i hope everything works out on that piss head of a doctor i hope he gets what he deserves
I have never understood in my whole entire life, how or why someone would think that they have the right to tell your or advise you to either get an abortion, have a kid or give the kid up for adoption. All of those options are options that YOU AND ONLY YOU can decide on. I personally am not for abortion, but I also don't want it to be illegal because there are grey areas that are not covered in laws that are generally always black and white.
LOL! Angelnot... Hypocritic Oath! That's priceless!!!
i'm sorry for your horror story and sad that it happen!but i have two of them and hope you don't mind me sharing them!?
i was put on methadone for chronic pain and one night i went to the er cause i was in so much pain !the doctor came and and looked at my chart and said go home junkie and take a pill! he never even asked what was my issues !
boy did i get up in his face and told him that i wasn't a junkie that i was on meth for chronic pain and that something was wrong with me ! they were calling security when i left ! i did call and made a conplaint against him !
and was back in the er the next night and was admitted to the hospital for a kiddney infection and uncontroled pain !
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Thanks for your imput. My mom is an RN and she is really mad too.. she no longer works and is retired, but she thinks that dr was stupid. She said she would call her lawyer for some advice and to see if anything can be done. As I said in my letter, my Grandpa was a MD and medical director of that hosp for 55 years. He died in 2007 at the age of 91. He was my dr until I turned around 21, until his retirement. I never had another dr until then, and he was so nice and so compationate and he was family. Then I get out into the REAL world and get all these diagnosis and find out the stupidity that is out there.. I was an STNA for 13 years, and even though I wasn't a nurse, I took good care of my patients and got real attached to them. I know the nurses are pushed to there limit and are consistantly understaffed, but you have to show compasion anyway, and if you can't you are in the wrong profession.
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I even was at the point that I was a PCT and was trained to give treatments and help with cathater changes, and different medical things. I wanted to be a nurse, but I could never pass the chemistry part. and now I can no longer work... I do have some training in the medical field and I understand how it works. It is lacking so much.. It seems like people don't know what else to do, so they become a nurses or STNA, just so they don't have to work at mcdonalds. I know there are alot of good nurses{crazyk64 included} and dr out there, but the system is so overworked and understaffed, that they fall through the cracks or they find some of the bad practices of others and get frustrated and find another career. I am feeling somewhat better, but I have alot of headaches, I think due to HBP. I broke down and called my dr today and he put me back on the Azor, which is really strong and that I was on before he changed it, and slowly I am feeling better after this evenings dose. I made an appt with him for next week. He is fairly nice, but he told me once, that with all my diagnosis that, and I quote, "If you were a horse I would have put you down by now" I know it was just a joke, but when someone is suffering, keep it to yourself. I don't want people to think I'm dr hopping, but I can't find one that I like yet. This only the 2nd dr I have had in 6 years, so not so bad... so, I will just keep pushing on and hope for the best.. take care everyone, and thanks again!
If I were in the business of caring for the ill & injured and owned the facility. It is people like Anonymous I would seek out for the highest wages I could dish out. I've had really awful experiences as of late. Including a Dr. that could not diagnose my malady with two blood panels but injected me anyway with something causing me great anguish and pain even now. He looked like he was on drugs or something. And the records have vanished. And my own Doctor seems to know of no way to assist me in finding out who injected me with what. I've about had it with these cattle herders, I'm just paying them to give me the runaround. I think they are under orders to keep cost low and save the medical insurers from any payouts. Doctors don't work for us - they work for the insurance companies, and they should not be on the stock exchange for ethical reasons. Thank you to all the ( good ) Doctors and kindhearted nurses who do all they are allowed to do for us.
I don't know how they get away with treating people like that. We are the reason they even have a job. I had this dr. who thought he was funny. Back when I was in my 20's I went to him for a gyn exam, and while I was up in the stirrups, he comes into the room and says, "Come on in fellas." That really pissed me off. He was the family dr. when I was growing up. What a jerk. I never really liked him... he made house calls (remember those?) and I used to hide in the closet when he arrived. I also bit him when I was about 5 because he made fun of my underwear... Funny thing was I had a loose tooth so it came out when I bit him. My parents loved the guy, so I got beaten when I got home and heard about how terrible I was for decades later... because I bit the dr. Like he was some kind of god... parents thought he was, I guess. I'm actually glad I bit the a-hole.
Remember 1/2 of 'em graduated at the bottom half of their class!
I rcvd a treatment that was not scheduled for me, was for someone else. Dr. refused to acknowledge me or his error, changed my med records, and after contacting patient advocate for the hospital, my complaint was noted, but would not follow up with me on my med records. I reported him to the AMA thru their site on the web, giving step by step what was done and all details. I was contacted by phone by an investigator with more questions. Once investigation was complete, they will not tell you what sanctions they impose, unless it goes to court, however, reading between the lines of the final letter I received about the investigation being thoroughly conducted, I KNOW, that this is in his permanent file at the very least. My thought being, he will think twice before he mal practices on another patient. I urge you to file complaint with the AMA, get copies of your med records for that night, maybe the nurse will help you, but the hospital will not for fear of suit.
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By filing with the AMA, they will investigate. Also, you have the right to consult an atty for what happened to you, but please at least file complaint with AMA so that no other patient must suffer this type of treatment. I am so glad you didn't stroke out and hope your are doing better. But please, don't let this pass. You were treated horribly, and he may have Dr. credentials, but he is certainly no caregiver. Best of luck and health to you.