yayablondie

I am 40 yrs old. I have 3 children. 2 girls, 16 & 12, 1 boy 14. I was married for 12 yrs. all of which I was physically and mentally abused. I... read more

I am 40 yrs old. I have 3 children. 2 girls, 16 & 12, 1 boy 14. I was married for 12 yrs. all of which I was physically and mentally abused. I have been divorced now for 8 years and now am engaged to a really nice man who puts up with all I am going through very patiently. I have had chronic back pain for over 8 yrs. My pain is in between my shoulder blades, lower back, hips (mostly right) and down right leg. Don't really have a diaginosis (sp?) yet, I hope soon because it is very frustrating. I used to have my own housekeeping business and work as a short order cook in a cafe. I am unable to work right now because of how I feel. I love to plant gardens and spend time outside. I enjoy watching my kids play sports. They ski race, play softball, basketball and soccer. I also enjoy riding on the back of my fiance's harley, can't really do that anymore either. I also love to go camping.