20 Dec 2009
Hi Elaine,
I'm so sorry you've been diagnosed with fibro. It hasn't been easy for me; I was diagnosed over a year ago, although had been having symptoms for at least two or three years before that. The most important thing to do is to find a doctor you feel comfortable with, who understands what you are going through, and who will work with you through many forms of treatment until you find one that works for you. Fibro definitely gives definition to the statement that medicine is more art than science.
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I also have a thyroid problem, and recently when I had a visit with my endocrinologist she went over a list of vitamins she puts her patients on. She suggests 5000 IU of vitamin D, sublingual B-12 4x a day, omega 3 and omega 6 fish oil (lots of it, but I can't recall right now how much) and calcium-magnesium supplements. The list that she gave me indicates that a deficiency of vitamin D can cause fibro-like symptoms. 5000 IU is a LARGE dose, so don't take that much without getting an ok from your doctor, and probably blood tests to see what your levels are. I have since started on these supplements (or restarted taking them... after awhile you just get sick of taking so many pills, you know?) So after maybe another month, I should have a better idea of if they are helping.
I just started Savella this past week. I had tried Lyrica and Cymbalta unsuccessfully, so we'll see how this goes. I've also tried "alternative" type doctors such as Holtorf Medical Group and Dr. St. Amand with the guaifenesin treatment. Although I improved enough while taking guaifenesin to go back to work, I don't know how much was attributable to the treatment and how much came from within and just pushing through to get back to living my life. Like I said, it seems to be mostly a hit-an- miss process. Also I hate to say it, but you cannot count on your family to really know what you're going through. Personally I just don't talk to my family about my health issues, as it causes me more stress than it's worth. My mom is an RN and honestly has no tolerance for sick people. Ha ha, I know, how sad. But true. My husband is really understanding and supportive, and a couple of dear friends. Otherwise, I'm really trying to muster strength within myself. Talking to others with health issues who have a POSITIVE attitude and a desire to live life helps. Try to steer clear of people who call themselves a support group, but really have gotten so "down" that they just wallow in misery. I found that I allowed that type of thinking to really bring me down with it after I was first diagnosed.
It is VERY important to pull yourself up and try to put your life in perspective. Chronic pain can sap the life out of you. Waking up and facing it daily can make you very depressed. If you are like most, the people around you who don't understand will say the depression is causing the pain, not the other way around. Then it just becomes a vicious cycle that becomes difficult to get out of. Break the cycle early and save yourself all that extra energy you don't have to spend. I only say this from my experiences over the past couple of years. Hang in there and know that you are worth all this effort to get better. Many days, you may feel like withdrawing and curling up into a painful ball and crying. Some days, you'll just have to do this. But the next day, after you've been able to rest and gather some energy, try to go out to live your life again.
I'm also learning that exercise really is important. What spurred my flare up that triggered my diagnosis was an intense kickboxing class that I was taking. Yikes. So for a long time after that I was really afraid to exercise. But my Dr. who I really like and trust got me walking, stretching, and eventually I will get back into a yoga class, because it really does help you to feel better. Just pace yourself and don't do too much at first.
Sorry to ramble, I've just been struggling so much myself, and feel like if I've learned a few things along the way, hopefully it might help someone else navigate it all. Good luck to you in this time of your life. Please let us know how you are doing!
Best wishes,
Jessica
May I add to your very insightful answer, that there are some people who can function pretty well with God, a good attitude, and a small but extremely supportive group of people.
As for me, I have Fibro along with Degenerative Discs in my cervical spine(neck) as well as in my Lumbar spine(low Back) I also have osteoarthritis, mostly in my hands (it figures, huh?) Oh,by the way, I also have Hepatitis C. (which can cause mucsle aches and pain!!! )So, it's tough to say what I'm hurting from. I write all this, then I again am amazed what God and agood attitude can do.
I work 40 hours a week and the only time I miss work is for Dr. appointments.
I do take an anti-inflammatory Diclofenac, Tramadol, muscle relaxer and Melatonin to help me sleep.
I also take Calcium with Vit D3, Milk Thistle(suggested by my Gastro for liver health!!! ) Omega-3 with Vit D3, Super B Vit Complex, and Acidophilus.
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I found out that my Cholesterol Med(one of the Statins) can cause muscle pain, so I quit that and found that the Omega-3's and Acidophilus help to control cholesterol.
I also force myself to eat Breakfast(oatmeal), that's the toughest lifestyle change. LOL
My primary Doc knows what I am taking and I will be "firing" my Rheumatologist at my next visit.
I cna only pray that something I've written can be of some help to you. Just "take what you can use and leave the rest" :)
May God bless you and keep you going.
I've had fibro since 1995 and it certainly changed my life. I had to quit work and it took over 2 years to get SSDI. I really wish I could work. I miss being with people. I take my daughter to school and sleep until noon or 1:30, then shower and pick her up. I take her to all the things she's involved in but I just can't seem to get re-connected to the world. I had to quit working and after 16 years of marriage, I couldn't live with an alcoholic husband anymore. I had an L4/L5 fusion in May of 2005 and left him 2 months later. I've had my bouts with depression and I hide at home a lot. I get social anxiety but I'm working on it.
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You got some good advice from the other 2 posts. I'd like to add that warm water exercise is really helpful. I went to a class that the Arthritis Foundation does. It was only $5 a class. I learned the excercises and would do them in the summer when I'd take my daughter to the pool. But if the water's cold, it did more harm than good.
You will always deal wih people who think it's all in your head or "can't you take something?" Nowadays, people think all you have to do is take a pill and you'll do fine. People think they have to see a physical thing before they'll believe you. It wasn't until I couldn't walk without a cane that my family believed me. I had to use the electric scooter at the store to be able to shop. My daughter and I were in a car accident and the L4 slipped forward and down, squashing the disk, and the pain was unbearable. I had to have the spinal fusion. It took almost 2 years, but I am finally able to walk most of the time without a cane or scooter. I'm able to walk the shopping mall, from one end to the other, on foot, for the first time since 1995. My 14 year old daughter said "I'm glad you can walk next to me when we shop. Now we can be "just girls". I never realized that it created a barrier between us when I was in the cart. Between that and the fact that I frequently have to help my elderly parents, I am really determined to stay OFF the cane and out of the cart.
Lastly, I'd like to share some drug information. I took Lyrica for about 2 years and it helped and I had no side effects. I had a flare recently where my bones hurt bad for days and days. I talked to my doctor and she switched me to Savella. THE MOST HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE OF MY LIFE! The side effects kept me in bed for 3 weeks. My body was so cold I would shake. I'd get a flush of heat that made me sweat like I was having hot flashes and night sweats that soaked me and the sheets/pilows. I basically spent 3 weeks in bed, under 4 blankets, feeling horrible. I had at least one night a week that I wouldn't get to sleep until dawn, and I take Ambien. I had panic attacks, constant headaches, tired all the time, overall body weakness, my bones hurt, my skin itched, blurred vision, confusion, trouble finding the word I wanted when I tried to talk (which is very frustrating! Fibrofog to the max!), difficulty concentrating and complete lack of energy. I've reported the problems I had with it to the FDA. I wish they would take it off the market! No one should have to put up with this! I went back on Lyrica, which I should have stuck with in the first place.
My husband got very upset with how much I had to sleep or that I didn't have the energy to do things. I finally told him, "I'm not lazy, I'm sick!" I also frequently say "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired!"
I wish you luck as you find things that work for you and what doesn't. I would give anything not to be affected by this. I'm 58 years old and I feel like I lost about 10 years because I wasn't able to get out of bed and live my life. My daughter is in marching band and I love being a band Mom. I thrive those days, I guess fueled by adrenalin, and when I'm in too much pain to get out of bed, I just think about the fun I had.
In case you end up having to go on disability, here are a few tips. Keep a pain log, like when you had to leave work because of pain or significant changes in your health. Keep copies of lab reports, dates of hospitalizations, etc. Don't be afraid to ask for accommodations at work, like a more ergonomic chair. etc.
Well, I've gone on too long, I'm sure. I feel for you! Best of luck.
exersizing is important but you must be gentle and start slowly. For me, I tolerate 2-3 10 min intervals of mild arobics like walking, dancing, swimming if you have a heated pool and stretch but with no pain. When you first feel the tug (not pain) hold for only 5 seconds then release. Drink a glass of water after each session to wash out lactic acid (pain). Truly, Penny
Dear Dads watchingyouswife, thanks for the encouragement! Hope you don't mind if I borrow it as well! I think we all need reminders from time to time to she down and take care of ourselves! And to efclemson, it is a long journey but at least I have found some great company along the way here! Wishing you the best!
~ Lawson
Dear Dads watchingyouswife, thanks for the encouragement! Hope you don't mind if I borrow it as well! I think we all need reminders from time to time to she down and take care of ourselves! And to efclemson, it is a long journey but at least I have found some great company along the way here! Wishing you the best!
~ Lawson