If Ive ever needed my DC family's love and support, can you help?
- Posted:
- 29 Nov 2011 by Tee6759
- Topics:
- zofran, gastroparesis, pain, tramadol, surgery, pacemaker
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me now? Im slowly crawling back from my surgery. It really knocked me back a lot and I wasnt prepared for "behaving" myself quite as much as I had to. The first few days were typical after a surgery. But then I felt so good, and I tried to jump in and eat all these nice foods that I hadnt had in a while, and that was my downfall. I ate too much rich food and paid the price. I was so nauseated and so sick that I ended up in the ER Sunday night for 8 hours. I had get rehydrated. They were also concerned because I hadnt been eating anything for 48 hours. I was also concerned about being on the valium, tramadol, and other pain meds for so long, I wanted to start weaning off of them asap. I was taking them 4x a day, so I cut it back to 2 doses. The doctor told me to cut it back to 3 times a day for a couple weeks, then go to 2 times a day for a couple weeks. As much as I had been on, it would cause too many withdrawal problems, inc nausea which is exactly what I didnt need more of. The zofran and phenergan seem to be helping for the moment, but I feel like I've been hit by a freight train. The surgery went well. I found out very interesting details in talking with my doctor. She is 1 of only 2 doctors in my state cleared to perform this surgery. This procedure was only started 3 years, and only 4,000 are performed on average per year. I guess I was very lucky that mine was right here in my own town. I have 3 weeks to heal enough, or now I've found I will lose my job due to time Ive been outta work. If not one thing goes wrong, another soon follows. If anyone has suggestions on the best way to taper down, or has been on valium for long periods of time, its only 2mg per dose, along with my other meds, I'd love to know what your plans were. Lord knows, I cant afford any more nausea.
I was told your messages while I was ill. Stormy kept me posted on the remarks and I read them when I got home. Thank you all for your prayers and love.
Love,
Tee
29 Nov 2011
I don't know Tee... are you sure you want to do this NOW??? Your body has been through a lot and needs time to heal... why introduce another stressor??? I can certainly appreciate why you want to start weaning from certain drugs. I really do... perhaps start with ONLY one drug... like the Percocet... I think is what you said was 4x/day... do what the ER doc suggested... go down to 3x/day for two weeks and so on... when you get to the very end you are going to need to go even slower. Don't try to taper everything at one time... I don't want you to set yourself up for failure.
Anyway... this is my two cents input... let your body heal from the procedure that was done. Let your stomach get used to working again... it is quite a big deal my dear... be good to thy own body!!!
Hope this doesn't burst your bubble or take the wind out of your sail... just thought I would give you what my gut thinks is the best for you.
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Whatever you decide to do... OF COURSE I will always be supportive of you my dear... feel better... be gentle to thy tummy...
PS... I know you are trying to go back to work so u don't lose your job... try getting off the Phenergan which makes you sleepy... lithe Zofran does not and is actually a superior antiemetic drug. Anyway... feel better soon...
29 Nov 2011
Dear sweet Tee,
I am so sorry to hear about your tummy! I can only imagine finally getting to eat all of the yummy holiday foods that are out and about right now, only to be hit with the nausea! SO glad you have the phenergan to help with it.
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I have not been on valium for a long length of time, but I have on the gab. Please take your time getting off of the pain meds. I know how badly you want off of them (I got so tired of taking pills when I went through my depression in 1993 that I just quit them. NOT a good plan!) It may seem like you are just dragging out the medications but honestly your body needs you to take your time. It has been through the wringer and you really need to listen to it. Don't be in too big of a hurry to get off of them. You will get there, I promise. Try and not to look at it as being 'tied' to the pills, but simply completing the process of getting better. All part of the plan. You will be tapered down and off of them in no time. By following your doctors advice on taking it slow will make you feel SO much better in the long run and hopefully allow you to be back at work with no delays.
Super big hugs to you, Tee! I am so glad to know that your surgery went well. Now just take your time and slowly ween down. You will be better in no time!!
Best to you,
Jillynnie
29 Nov 2011
Hey Sis,
You know that I love you and I will ALWAYS have your back no matter what. You've been there for me, and I'll always be there for you. Hold my hand and we will go through this journey together. Give your body a chance to heal, just feel my hand rubbing your back and giving you positive energy and Good Karma. You will get through this, you have me and everyone here at DC to get you through this. Lots of love Sis,
Stormy xoxoxoxox
30 Nov 2011
I can greatly appreciate and understand your desire to get off of the valium and tramadol, but I have first hand experience. If you don't do anything else be kind to your body, I rushed my post op ( which was different from yours but still traumatic nonetheless) against the urging of my friends and tried to get off the drugs too quickly, I sent my body into a tailspin that I have been on now for some 4 months, and that is 4 months that I have not worked, I am lucky, my company has extended my leave for a year if needed but all companies do not do this nor do they have to.
Again be kind, if you feel that you need to wean then by all means do so but do it one drug at a time and slowly, for example if the valium is 2mg 4 times a day then try going to 3 times, then try cutting the pill and get it 3 times, then 2 times, all at 1 or 2 week intervals. I am now doing just that it is slow but it is not quit as painful for you. And you have to be the most important person here, no one else matters. Hope this helps.
I wish you good health
30 Nov 2011
Tee I can't help with the taper and I'm so sorry about Sunday I really hope it gets better! I was looking for your avatar to ask hw you are since the surgery I guess you answered. I really hope you feel better soon. And don't over stress dear whatever happens you can fix it! Tell dr if your not completely recovered to give you a note saying unable to work till? Thay can't fire you lawfully with dr statement worse that happens is they do and gettem 4 unemployment. Hugs dear glad it was a suscess though
30 Nov 2011
Hi Tee,
I have only being on and off the site now and again. I did'nt read anywhere that you had your surgery,but just came across your post now,i just wanted to wish you well and say my prayers are with you,i hope you start to feel better soon and i would do as Jaime suggested and get a letter from your doc for your employer,that way you will be covered and they cant fire you when you have medical illness and doctors note to prove that!!
Also you got great advice here about your tapering plan and good suggestions,but i agree that maybe you are trying to get off meds too quick,i can understand you want to push yourself,but you've just had a major op and have being through alot so bear in mind that you have time and have to give your body a chance to heal before putting yourself through more extreme by coming off the meds so quick.Just a thought!!
I wish you well and a speedy recovery!!
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So happy to hear your surgery has gone so well,you've finally got what you wanted for so long!!
Keep up the strength and take care of yourself!!
Take your time with the tapering and my thoughts and prayers are with you!!
30 Nov 2011
happy the surgery went well make sure you take care of yourself and i wish you a speedy recovery

Anonymous
30 Nov 2011
tee, at this very moment im on a very slow taper from percocet 10/325, from about 160 mgs, now to 130-140. laurieshay helped me with a schedule and ive got a great dr also supporting me on my taper. this week ive cut 2.5 mg per dose, making it 120 mg a day for the next week, and im sure by today i will feel the wds if any. i am dealing with depression, anxiety/panic disorder, and with the taper its all whacked out of place. well hang in there and remember us when you struggle. we are family at dc. take care
2 Dec 2011
Hey Tee,
Glad you are up and rearing to go. Might want to pay head to the docs suggestion to taper your dose of pain reliever to three times a day for a couple of weeks, then go to two for awhile, then one. If you notice any withdrawals return to the previous dose and stay put for awhile longer than taper again.
Hard to give ya an exact plan as don't know what you are taking, but when the time is right would be happy to help anyway I can.
Get well soon,
Laurie
2 Dec 2011
Teresa, am so glad to hear the surgery went well. You need to really heed your doctors advice about weaning off of these drugs one at a time. It's the tramadol you have to be so careful about. It can cause you to have seizures if you just stop it all at once. please be very careful & don't rush your recovery I know you want it all to be over, but it took time to get this way & may take some time to get better. I wish you all the best my friend...
2 Dec 2011
Hey Tee. Best advice I may add is, heed all of the above. Great advice from your other family members indeed. Be well,
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Dear Pup, I only take the percocet as absolute last resort for pain, love. I've only used 6 of the 60 pills she gave me for the pain. Its the valium and tramadol that I've been taking 4x a day that Im worried so much about. I've been on that combo now for over 2 months. This is what Im afraid of having the trouble with when I start weaning off them. I've been on them so long my family said Id become a zombie. I dont like that, Pup, that is NOT me. The percocet is only when the pain gets the absolute worse. And dear Pup, your 2 cents is always welcome. You would never take the wind outta my sails. I come here hoping for advice and wisdom from you and the others, because I count on you to help me. I know you wont let me down and you'll be there for me. Dont ever think that, please? I love you guys, all of you for this.
In peace,
Tee