... spreading on to my shoulder and my neck. Even my face is so swollen and numb. I am taking advil and tylenol. I am seeking the advice from anyone who can show me the technic to relieve the ear pain. I cannot go to work and i sleep so less now. I feel like crying every night. Also the pain on the left ear went to the right ear. I am having diabetes with high glucose. Is that why it is damaging my nervers. I am desperately seeking good advice. Thanks