... a day. He has agreed to go for suboxone treatment which is set to start next week, he is still living out of our home. I recently sustained a fractured foot and have to stay home , thats not the problem the problem is my husband he constantly lies and is sneaky, he refuses to answer my calls, and will only text me whe he feels like it, this is driving me crazy . He also blames me and my grown children for all the problems and also why he takes drugs. His behavior is driving me crazy is this normal?
We have been married 17 years, I feel so low and down. Is this hopeless should i just continue to help him and watch whats left of my self esteem go down the toilet, or do I run. I really need help with this someone.
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Drug Dependence - I recently kicked my husband out for being addicted to percocet, he takes about 30
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- 2 weeks ago by Dawn27
- Topics:
- percocet, suboxone, drug dependence, opiate dependence
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Either find a counselor or go to a support group for the loved ones of addicts like AL anon or Narc anon. AL anon will be much easier to find, it is annonymous, virutally free and their will be other people with family and loved ones who are addicts vs alcoholics. You need some emotional support so that you don't believe the awful things you are being told by your husband. A counselor can also help. Hang in there and let us know how you are doing.
RUN DAWN RUN! I say this because I know this is not the first chance you have given him now is it??? No I bet this is chance number 89 or 105 huh?? I can tell you from experience that a drug addict will not change until they either (1) Decide they no longer want drugs in their life & seek professional help or (2) Hit absolute rock bottom, and by this I mean, no friends, no family, no job, no money, pretty much nothing and then they may still use the system or a loved one that gives in to fake trying to bet healthy just to sneak right back to get their buzz on their pills, bud, needles, alki, whatever. YOU CAN NOT HELP HIM !!!! HE HAS TO WANT HELP that is my point dear...and apparently he is not ready, please dont let him continue to drag you down with him. You still have a life left, grown children left, maybe grandchildren huh? He need help and has to want that help and as a women you are used to fixing everything right?? Guess what?? you cant fix this! Run Dawn Run....He has had enough chances..Tell him..no more..pills or me..or get the hell out of my life.....I HATE DRUGS ......THEY RUIN LIVES...AND GROWN MEN WHO CANT CHOOSE THEIR FAMILY OVER DRUGS DO NOT DESERVE TO HAVE THEIR FAMILYS!!!! Sorry ....you deserve better..I deserve better...We all do...Addiction is an awlful thing but for crying out loud, cant he choose a women he loves over a dam pill??? Think about that?? shit tell him...me or the pills!!! "Final answer!"
