I gave Paxil 20 mg a chance for 5 weeks..I did feel considerably better but still feeling some anxiety. I upped to 30 mg 3 weeks ago and not feeling any positive changes. I wake every morning with my mind asking "how do I feel?"I am tired of this anxiety and having to "keep busy". Why can't I just relax. I do take one xanax .25 each day but it only helps a bit. I'm also VERY tired from the medecines. I don't know whether to up to 40 mg of Paxil (doctor gave the option) or try something else. Really just frustrated and want to have a day where I don't have to think about how I'm feeling.